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Close to Home, Heterophobia Claims A Legislator

October 18, 2018

cliff_graydon.jpg(left, Cliff Graydon,69, Member of Legislative Assembly of Manitoba for Emerson) 

Women try to look attractive. 
Sometimes they get
unwanted attention. 
These instances should 
not be front page news
and should not end 
the man's career. 

by Henry Makow Ph.D

Tuesday the blaring headline across the top of the front page if the Winnipeg Free Press was "Second Accusation Against Graydon."

The MLA for the rural riding of Emerson was already in hot water for telling a female staffer she could sit on his lap at a busy luncheon where
there were few chairs. (Apparently, she did, but felt "uncomfortable.")

Now we learn that when another staff member mentioned he had food on his face, he had asked if she could lick it off. 

Wednesday he made an abject apology to the women involved and to all members and staff of the legislature and went on medical leave.
He said he will not seek re-election.  

Admittedly this man's quips were tasteless and inappropriate but in my day, the leader of the party would have had a quiet word with the offender, and that would be it.  It would not be career-ending or front page news. 

Increasingly the news is imitating social media, preoccupied with gossip and trivia, instead of urgent or useful information.
The Murdoch newspapers are the best example. The plebes don't need to be informed just distracted. 

There is a pattern here.  Elevate normal heterosexual behavior to the level of sexual harassment in order to root men out of public life. It almost worked with Kevin Kavanaugh. It worked with Matt Lauer, Charlie Rose, Bill O'Reilly, Louis CK, Al Franken, Jian Ghomeshi, Roger Ailes and Les Moonves. With the exception of Kevin Spacey, the men have all been heterosexual. Where's the tolerance?

Harvey Weinstein's behavior was particularly egregious but women have been trading sex for starring roles in Hollywood for a century. 

The difference between flirting and "sexual harassment" is whether the woman welcomes it. How is a man supposed to know? 

The goal is for heterosexuality to be seen as a pathology while homosexuality is considered healthy and normal. In May, a professor at Merrimack College created a scandal for making a harmless quip in a crowded elevator. He asked for "Women's Lingerie" harking back to a Department Store.

I'd be in favor of a kind of ombudsman to handle these cases quietly. Women should not have to endure genuine harassment. But the goal is to exacerbate tension between the sexes and demonize men. Tolerance is a one-way-street for the forces of tolerance. 


Graydon who represents the area where migrants have been walking across the border from the US called them a "drain on society" and retweeted other peoples' post that called Trudeau a traitor, a scumbag and a disgrace. It is possible that he was targeted because of these views. 

According to the Winnipeg Sun, Graydon apologized, deleted the tweets and agreed to step back from social media and undergo "sensitivity training." 

"Sensitivity training"?  That's just another word for Communist re-education and indoctrination. This man is an elected Member of the Legislature. He has a right to express his views which reflect those of his constituents.

The mass media is owned and run by Freemasons. The goal of Freemasonry is the triumph of Communism.  Communists have always wanted to destroy the family. Demonizing heterosexuality is how they do this. Will men have relationships if the woman, after they break up, can claim abuse? How many women are able to love a man in this toxic environment? 

This isn't about refining human nature. It is about transforming it. An attack on our gender is an attack on our psyches.

We are in the midst of a societal makeover. We don't have to accept it.

First Comment by Marco A

Asking a woman coworker to lick food off your face is not normal heterosexual behavior. Nor is telling a woman to sit on your lap. 
 Is "normal heterosexual behavior" supposed to be so pornographic? 

It's called being a pig and the man should of received a slap in the face. It also shows a massive lack of seriousness for his position. An incompetent. I'm sick of these losers. He should lose his job and a more respectful, professional person can take his place.

And the guy is 69 years old with a family. He's just a harmless flirt? He's an old pervert.

Here is a real appeal to heterosexuality - place this guy in a ring with the husband or father of each woman.

If he loses his job, good riddance, why should Canadians have people of low moral character in the legislature? Just because he stoked the fires and said something politically incorrect doesn't make him some sort of persecuted hero. You are going to alienate a large portion of your readers if you decide to justify sexual harassment as normal heterosexuality. 

Reply- Marco, women have to be enlisted, not petitioned. In normal heterosexual behavior, men must take the initiative. Many women want men to be persistent.  All men are not going to be suave and welcome like James Bond. Some, like Graydon, are going to be coarse. His remarks were tasteless but he was just kidding. It should have been handled privately. It wasn't because it feeds into the #MeToo hysteria and puts a chill on male-female relations. 

Diane writes- "Being an idiot should not be a hanging offense"

Here's a thought: how about women stop trading their self-respect for being liked? How about telling an old creep where to get off - boss or no boss? How about embarrassing him publicly so he gets the idea he's off base? Some guys are pretty thick when it comes to women and you have to be really clear with them. The problem is that we have all (men and women) been brainwashed into believing we must never, ever hurt anyone's feelings - unless of course, they are not human ie conservative. So we have very little civility but a lot of useless and phony "nice". Women have sold their feminine souls and no longer have their natural instincts nor the natural responses to these very basic situations.

Of course, men have also sold their masculine souls. No self-respecting man would ever consider uttering Graydon's crass, pathetic jokes. However being an idiot should not be a hanging offense or we'd all be on the end of a rope one way or another. Clearly, your conclusions are correct - The destruction of God's plan for man is rolling along. But fear not, He will have the last laugh!

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Comments for " Close to Home, Heterophobia Claims A Legislator"

Al Thompson said (October 18, 2018):

I think I have to agree with Marcos on this one. The man is immature for 69 years old and needs adult supervision. That's the kind of nonsense we might see in high school. But given the fact that he's a govtard his immaturity reflects the politics of the day.

Thanks Al

But this was a social misstep, not rape, theft or murder.


Alex C said (October 18, 2018):

If his approaches to women are coarse then it's likely his overall thinking is coarse so an easy target for them surely is he. Though I imagine his relationship to himself and to "God" cost him his job, the lead into these weird incidents. He couldn't substantiate his acts in his own workplace!! I bet he eats a lot of cow. 100 quid.

When they control a large portion of the masses it looks like they can decide for the constituents how these matters will play out. Perhaps he is a victim but I'm not worried an essential man has fallen, more than his rights were trampled on by the corporate judicial system like everyone else's. That is a/the lynchpin that holds everyone in a religious fear of God and government: a rogue corporate judiciary that puts citizens as a lower class and uses this status against them ad nauseum until they either Love to Hate or Hate to Love. Pick a side or one will be chosen for you at birth. Ye shall not know thyself.

Yet for people of magnificent conscience, it's all about balance. Stern logic can be a guide to many wonders of self. I wish the man was able to keep his job but he didn't even have the willpower to keep it, so... Meh

I get it though Dr. Henry. I'm glad you are keeping an eye on all this and I'm really using your information wisely I believe. :)

Robert K said (October 18, 2018):

These women were staff, and therefore this behavior was certainly egregious and completely unacceptable. As long as, in the face of patent material abundance, financial independence is artificially withheld from women (and men) by our legislatures, this kind of impropriety protected by the subordination inherent in the employer-employee relationship is utterly repugnant.

David S said (October 18, 2018):

t is only a matter of time before a heterosexual man who asks a female co-worker "while smiling" at her to go on

a date with him will be subject to dismissal from his job, especially if she doesn't think he is "marriage material".

In the short term, women will definitely gain the upper hand with office jobs because it will be safer for men to not work in an office but in the long term the typical male business owner is going to have an all-male office staff and those foolish women will be forced to work in more dangerous labour jobs or collect welfare.

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The Judeo Masonic Roots of Modern "Cult-ure"

October 17, 2018

Just as our bodies need food, our souls also have needs, for meaning

and inspiring models of truth, courage, goodness, beauty, and love.

The satanic cult (Cabalism) that controls modern culture defines 

humanity as soulless animals, better to exploit and cull us. 

The film "Why Beauty Matters" (left) shows that we are being starved spiritually. Our souls are fed a diet of dysfunction, ugliness, violence and sexual depravity. We are being starved. 

To confirm this, just look at contemporary music, literature or films. It's what you'd expect in a society run by a satanic cult, where mention of God is forbidden because atheists might be offended. Where believers have no rights? (The attack is also intellectual. 

They suppress information and control discourse.) 

(From July 26, 2012)

by Henry Makow Ph.D.

Modern "culture" is a product of the Luciferian conspiracy against Christian Civilization. 

Relentlessly negative and increasingly obscene, modern "culture" attacks the sources of dignity, decency, and hope that define us as human beings rather than animals.


For example last week the media in London was hyping a play about "sexual love" between a married man and a goat.

In an interview, the playwright Edward Albee said "The Goat" challenged this "societal taboo" and hoped that members of the audience would "re-examine their values and attitudes toward bestiality."

"Funny, moving and tragic," raved Channel 4 News, a respected and "serious" programme in the UK.

Bestiality has occurred and the play is primarily concerned with the protagonist's
confession and inability to deal with the fact that he "feels guilty for not feeling guilty". "We are all animals," he rationalizes. The play deals with the confrontation between the protagonist, his wife and their gay son.

A reader, Jonathan Stonehouse wrote: "It staggers me to think that there are many who now associate freedom with the normalization of everything formerly regarded as morally repugnant, when the truth is we're building a world in which the majority will be slaves to every whim and fancy, not to mention dark and abhorrent desire, the human imagination can conceive. That's a form of 'freedom' I can well do without."

True culture is based on refining our animal instincts in terms of spiritual ideals (like truth, justice, goodness and beauty.) Modern anti-culture is based on demoralizing and destroying society by disparaging these ideals and indulging our basest impulses.

Anti-culture portrays man in purely naturalistic and material terms. Every sexual impulse and bodily function must be recognized and indulged. This is considered "courageous" while any demur is considered repressive, prudish or fascist.

In one of the final episodes of "Sex and the City", the audience had to endure Carrie getting a bikini wax. Thankfully we were spared a full frontal view. This is not prudishness. Human dignity requires privacy. Female allure requires modesty and mystery. We have souls, not only bodies.

The exaltation of man's animal nature, at the expense of his spiritual qualities, is a direct consequence of the deification of man. Our anti-culture assumes that man is a finished product and doesn't need to be transformed by God's Love.

A symptom of making man God is that we mystify and worship human beings. We worship a cult of great minds, a cult of great beauty, a cult of great wealth and power.

Modern "culture" reflects the final unfolding of a diabolical conspiracy that rejects the Designer's instructions.


By eating the forbidden fruit, Lucifer promised: "Your eyes will be open and you will be like God, knowing good and evil." (Genesis 3:5) This means that man will redefine what is good and evil to suit his self-interest.

God is Good. When man makes himself God, good becomes whatever the most powerful man or group wants. Good becomes evil and evil becomes good. This is happening today.

There were a lot of groups who wanted to be God but some conservatives believe our anti-culture can be traced to the Jewish view of their "chosen-ness."

Originally Jews had a conception of God as a Universal Moral Force. (This is the Judaism I identify with.) Apparently, in 79 BC there was a Civil War and the Pharisees were victorious. They proclaimed the supremacy of the Babylonian Talmud over the Torah (the first five books of the Old Testament.)

The Talmud teaches that the Jews are chosen by God to lead mankind. In practice, this makes them God and gives them the right to redefine reality. It has made them Luciferians.


In the words of Harold Rosenthal, "Most Jews do not like to admit it, but our god is Lucifer...and we are his chosen people. Lucifer is very much alive."

According to the author "Rabi": "Christianity is essentially preoccupied with the individual salvation of man. Judaism only contemplates the salvation of the House of Israel, which alone can permit the salvation of seventy nations of the universe." (Anatomie du Judasime Francaise, pp.203-204)

Thus the Pharisees rejected Christ because he taught that God is Love and all men are equal in the sight of God.

"The advent of Christ was a national catastrophe for the Jewish people, especially for the leaders," Leon de Poncins writes. "Until then they alone had been the Sons of the Covenant; they had been its sole high priests and beneficiaries... "

He continues: "The irreducible antagonism with which Judaism has opposed Christianity for 2000 years is the key and mainspring of modern subversion...[The Jew] championed reason against the mythical world of the spirit ...he was the doctor of unbelief; all those who were mentally in revolt came to him either secretly or in broad daylight..." (Judaism and the Vatican, pp.111-113.)


I suspect that the Messianism of the Pharisee Jews may be an instrument of international bankers, a way to consolidate their power. These bankers and their allies are creating a New World Order that cares little for democratic principles. They will be the Gods.

Nathan Rothschild (1777-1836) said: "I care not what puppet is placed on the throne of England to rule the Empire. The man who controls Britain's money supply controls the British Empire and I control the British money supply."

In addition to Jewish Messianism, Freemasonry has been the bankers' tool. It was instrumental in the destruction of the Christian monarchies in Germany, Austria and Russia and the decline of the Catholic Church.

This is also the view revealed in The Red Symphony.

In his Encyclical Humanum Genus (1884) Pope Leo XIII wrote that the ultimate aim of Freemasonry is "to uproot completely the whole religious and moral order of the world, which has been brought into existence by Christianity...This will mean that the foundation and the laws of the new structure of society will be drawn from pure naturalism."

Again Pope Leo XIII said: "Freemasonry is the permanent personification of the Revolution; it constitutes a sort of society in reverse whose aim is to exercise an occult overlordship upon society as we know it, and whose sole raison d'etre consists of waging war against God and his Church." (De Poncins, Freemasonry and the Vatican, p. 45)


In Freemasonry and the Vatican, Leon de Poncins, left, uses Jewish sources to argue that Freemasonry is closely related to Judaism. For example, Rabbi Elle Benamozegh wrote: "Masonic theology corresponds well enough to that of the Kabbala.,,,(Israel et L'Humanite, p.73)

De Poncins cites an article that appeared in 1861 in a Parisian Jewish Review La Verite Israelite: "But the spirit of Freemasonry is that of Judaism in its most fundamental beliefs; its ideas are Judaic, its language is Judaic, its very organization, almost, is Judaic... "

De Poncins writes that the goal of both Freemasonry and Judaism is the unification of the world under Jewish law. (Freemasonry and the Vatican, p. 76)


Judeo Masonic culture hasn't been all bad. It has allowed us to accept our sexual desires without guilt and given us the freedom to find God again on our own terms. However, these benefits are temporary enticements. The ultimate aim is to divorce us from God and enslave us to our sexual and material lusts, i.e. to arrest our development.

Mankind is being subverted by its political and cultural leaders, beholden to international bankers and their allies, who often are practicing Luciferians. They use Judaism (incl. Zionism) and Freemasonry as instruments of organization and control. Obviously, the majority of Jews and Freemasons are unaware or do not believe this.

Modern culture makes a God of man. Man defines everything including goodness and truth. The result is that we are in a spiritual prison cut off from God and oppressed by relentless reminders of our own stunted development.

I'm afraid spiritual and psychological enslavement is but a prelude to a political and economic one. Since 9-11, we are sheep grazing in sight of an abattoir.


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Scruples - the game of moral dillemas

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Comments for "The Judeo Masonic Roots of Modern "Cult-ure""

YR said (October 18, 2018):

The vast majority of the Freemasons' symbols are based on Pythagoreanism and geometry which goes back to his studies of musical harmony. The Freemasons and the Illuminati LOVE classical beauty. The devil himself tempts you with infinite beauty. Not only that, but almost all the great artists of the past, like Mozart, Beethoven, Haydn, Chopin, Verdi, Brahms, Debussy, etc. were Freemasons and/or Rothschild projects.

Jazz musicians, pop musicians, painters, ditto. Worse still, plenty of horrible political groups have used beauty to cover up their ugliness. Think of socialist realism, for example, or some of the more sophisticated kinds of advertising, or the Roman Catholic Church.

So the truth is much more complicated, somehow. Certainly, the nihilistic, depressing, enforced ugliness of modernism is satanic. But the often pompous, overly optimistic fixation on beauty and harmony can be just as dangerous. Often times the people most deserving of love are not beautiful, they are unattractive and annoying. And beauty makes great propaganda for evil.

John said (August 19, 2008):

This is an extremely important topic, and I have discussed this with many people. I have always wondered why our society at large seems to be decaying, rather than blossoming...especially when there is so much technology available to expedite the transfer of knowledge. The only possible reason is that society is purposely being driven into decay. There is a concerted plan to ensure that the base nature of man is celebrated! There is no longer any taboos in the world, no sense of morality or shame.

I saw the following article online, and couldnt believe my eyes. The surprising thing is that the responses show a sense of apathy and acceptance. I truly fear for my country, and the world at large.,,2-2127-2128_2378521,00.html

Thanks Henry...Keep up the good work.

Steve said (August 17, 2008):

Hello Dr. Makow:

Last night I had the good fortune to discover your writings. I wish I could disagree with them, but they ring to my heart, insight and experience. The questions really began from an event in November of 1963 and have grown stronger. It is hard to quantify, but I have seen and felt the displacement of the male/female roles in our society. I eagerly await “Hoax.”

THANK YOU! For having the insight and the courage to go against the evil tides that are sweeping over the world.

Ralph said (August 17, 2008):

I've been reading and enjoying your articles for some time, so much so, that you are scattered throughout my blog. I haven't done much or I haven't said much on my blog, as of yet, but I will be retiring from teaching this month and I hope to write more.

If you wish, check it out:

I went to university when I was 50 years old, did a masters in history, and I'm wondering if I really did get educated as I never heard of the illuminati until after I graduated. I'd like to know why but I think I know the answer.

Ronnie said (August 17, 2008):

I am so tired of this world's morality and filthy lies. It is hard to believe that humanity is so stupid as to be wilfully dragged to this base condition, yet it is there in black and white in the pages of the bible that we would arrive in this place of darkness. Christ said that when we see all of the signs of ' our deliverence ' i.e. men fainting out of fear at the things coming upon the inhabited earth, we should raise our heads because of our impending salvation. Like the 49 year old guy below, I am sick to my stomache. I am 57 and wish I could sleep until this is all over. 911 was a terrible shock to my system that caused me to see deeply into the evil of this world and it's rulers. Discovering your site Henry, helped me to understand why all of the wars since the French revolution occurred. Once you've had the veil lifted from your eyes to the machinations of the satanic bankers and their progeny, you can understand what's behind the news of today, like Georgia, Ossetia and Russia and the U.S.A. People, humans, little children and old folk are nothing in their eyes. Morals is a dirty word to these demons.

Tim said (August 17, 2008):

I just read your article via the truthseeker website, I was begining to think I must be the only right thinking male on the Planet! I am 49 years of age, fit active and intelligent, I refuse to conform to the norms of Society, Over the years Iv noticed a rapid decline in Standards in ALL walks of life, modern relationships are nothing more then mutual conveneint Liasons, No better then Prostitution in most cases. Most people today are driven by nothing more then basic Human faults, Greed, Sex etc, they slave in their jobs purely to buy more Gadgets, Bigger Houses, more expensive Cars etc etc. A futile existence, spiritualy they may as well be the worm in the ground. The Cult of the Moron is all purveying, and Consumerism is the only game in Town. God Help Us !!!!!!!!

Keep up the Good work.

Stephen said (August 16, 2008):

Judaism is something that was acquired when the Jews went into the Babylonian Captivity;they mixed the true religion of the faithful sons of Abraham,Moses,Isaac,David etc. with Babylonianism. This was spiritual adultery and the child born was Luciferian Judaism and unfaithful sons of Abraham. The were seduced.

Seems like around this time synagogues came about in large numbers,a place to basically go and meet people and get connected.

Rick said (August 16, 2008):

I just went to see a movie yesterday, which depict our society to the t. [Woody Allen's] "Vicky Cristina Barcelona". A married guy having affairs with different women because it is the only way to please his wife.In one scene, she, the wife, tells one of the woman:" You have no idea how great it is to have you here. You complement our marriage".and then kissed her. Today, in this depraved society, women control the "strings". We do as they please , unless you are ready to break away from all that meaningless corruption.

In all my years, I have yet to meet one couple who can honestly say:" We are very happy together" or even "we like each other's company". Observe a couple in a Restaurant , he is reading the menu for the fifth time while she is flirting with waitress.It's a sick, sick world we live in.

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Men - Don't Give Up on Women!

October 16, 2018

In this 9-min video, a young Ukrainian woman outlines why she thinks that MGTOWs (men who go their own way) are justified. She outlines many reasons why young women have become toxic and marriage is a trap. The comments 
below suggest that a growing number of men have rejected the company of women altogether. i.e. "After a man marries a woman she quickly loses that 'new car smell', but the car payments go on and on."

Giving up on women is not the solution.

1/ MGTOW is the counterpart of feminism. The Communist elite wants to destroy heterosexual marriage and family. Don't succumb! 

2/ The solution is to find a woman who will follow your lead. I tell my wife she can have power or love. She cannot have both. She chooses love. Women want power, in the form of male love. Heterosexual union is the exchange of female (worldly) power for male power in the form of love.

3/ MGTOW is understandable but it is self-defeating. Men and women complement each other. Both need love and sex. Sex must take place in the context of a loving relationship or it is essentially masturbation.

4/ Women have been brainwashed. A man has to reprogram the woman he loves. (See the movie, The Bostonians.") 

 5. A woman is like a flower. If you give her love, she will blossom and bear fruit. We must be patient and persevering. Don't marry until you are really sure.

6. Having children and raising them to be good people is doing God's Work. How often do we get this opportunity? 

Brad- Talking to women about this is akin to talking to a wall. It's useless because they (most) do not understand why the successful men aren't making them happy. They aren't making them happy because they have too much to lose, and the way a woman wants you to act toward them....not what they say, but what they be dominated but adored, will net you a HUGE loss of wealth and quality of life. Why would anyone in their right mind accept a contract knowing that it's a net loss for you to initiate? Women will learn the same way as anyone else...when there is enough pain, they will change. MGTOW is just giving them the silent treatment they need to change. It's not a matter of if, but when. I've totally accepted the fate of being without a woman for the rest of my days. However, I hope for my daughter's sake, women as a whole change their attitudes before it's too late for her to have a family. Also, I don't only blame women in all this. Weak minded men are allowing this to happen because women need men to enforce everything. When men stop enforcing women's's over.
Evan-  kind of wanted a wife and family. But I just can't! I've seen men lose their houses, their children and even kill themselves after a traumatic divorce. Every single couple I know that has been married has divorced, the wife has almost always been unfaithful. It's just impossible to have a wife and family anymore, so MGTOW for me is the only way.

J-Well done. Thanks for understanding. I went MGTOW back in 1997.
It's not all bad though. House paid off. My mechanic job brings in 4400 US dollars a month, spending is 1400, surplus usually about 3000 a month. And now I have enough accumulated wealth to retire (12 years early). I'm going to buy a camper for my pickup truck and go see some of this country now. I'll probably be retired around February of next year.

Vention MGTOWWell done. Thanks for understanding.
I went MGTOW back in 1997.
It's not all bad though. House paid off. My mechanic job brings in 4400 US dollars a month, spending is 1400, surplus usually about 3000 a month. And now I have enough accumulated wealth to retire (12 years early). I'm going to buy a camper for my pickup truck and go see some of this country now. I'll probably be retired around febuary of next year.

Jedi Run- The question you should be asking is how many men will go MGTOW when it is all said and done? I predict a lot more because nothing beats freedom MGTOW4LIFE :)

Player Unknown -There's so many women in the US who have zero respect and appreciation for men. Expect everything and giving nothing but complaints in returns. Self-preservation seems to be the logical way to go.

Anon-it's growing in Africa too man don't want anything to do with women.

Black Torch-Already, Happening in Black American community. 51% of Black American men have no wife and no Children.  And the refuse to talk to Black women in any capacity. It called the Wall of Silence. We are shooting for 80% by 2025. Good luck !

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(left, In The Bostonians, 1984, Christopher Reeve reprograms feminist Madelaine Potter) 

Henry Boaz- Getting a man is like getting a free meal ticket for life.

KL --Met a 29 year old plumber that owned a home, I asked him if he was married, he said no. Asked him if he had a girlfriend, he said "why would I ever do that?" He saw what his mother did to his father, he made a chose long ago there's zero value in women!! I want him to talk to my son, to get him on the right track!!! God bless mgtow!!!

Ghost in the Machine - Most women. and some men. talk like MGTOW is temporary and that things will go back to 'normal' between men and women somewhere in the years ahead. You can hear it in their tone of voice or the choice of words they use. But, I disagree. Without strong social pressure, men are not going to go back to marriage and the family. I think most men I know would like to have a wife and family, but I also think they enjoy the freedom of being free to live their life the way they want and to be free of the responsibility of a wife and kids. I was married a short time and I still remember the constant pressure to support my wife and pay the bills. I've been single years since my divorce and it's so much easier to only be responsible for myself. The enjoyment of being free of responsibility, vastly outweighs the enjoyment of female company. 
So what am I saying, you ask? I'm saying that once most men are set free from the responsibility of marriage in society, the social pressure to marry will be broken forever, and non-reversible. Marriage is a financial plus for women, but not such a good deal for men in today's world. After a man marries a women she quickly loses that 'new car smell', but the car payments go on and on. Nope, marriage is not a good deal for men today. In the past, social pressure and rites of manhood, demanded men get married, but not in modern society. 
The old marriage model has been broken and it's not going to come back, ever. Men and women will still get married, but in very small numbers, and they will quickly divorce, not to remarry. Youtube men and women who talk like there is a solution (if it can just be found) are mistaken. It's wishful thinking. MGTOW is one-way, it's growing, and it's here to stay. 
Women will not give up their new found (fill in the blank) freedom, and men will not give up their new found (fill in the blank) freedom. Both sides are unwilling to even consider going back to the way things were in past centuries. Which is understandable from either sides view. Anyone talking about compromise or love on daytime news commentary is dreaming.
Thanks to Michael Berg for sending this.

First Comment from John

 Don't give up on women? Women have nothing to do with it, Henry. It is the State that is the problem. The State has set itself against men so it's not women we are up against as men, but the State. And the State will take our home, our money, our children and even our freedom using the EXCUSE of defending women's "rights". By eliminating women from our homes we eliminate the excuse the State uses to come in and destroy men's lives. Women are accomplices but without the role of the State women would be no problem, or at least no more of a problem than they have ever been. So MGTOW is really a way for men to protect themselves from THE STATE.

Scruples - the game of moral dillemas

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Comments for "Men - Don't Give Up on Women!"

SP said (October 17, 2018):

She was very accurate in her description of MGTOWs. They want to land a decent woman who they can marry and have children with, but they realise that the game is set against them. I am one of those. I don’t blame women for this, but the laws that are in place. Pretty ironic that these laws were actually created by feminists, which just proves how they have destroyed women instead of lifting them up. Women are being used by the state to destroy relationships, and because the brainwashing is so strong it is like going into a minefield to deal with these women. Real men who are actually still manly have the game turned against them because women in their fertile years choose the wrong types of men (bad boy trait types) thanks to the various media. Women from your generation still have that sense of being a woman, so they can still be convinced. Obviously marrying a woman from your generation for a guy like me is completely idiotic and useless. The millennial and younger women on the other hand have absolutely no idea.

As long as the patriarchy isn’t restored, the incentives to divorce removed, the daddy welfare state eliminated, and sluts, cheating, etc. frowned upon by society again to deter women going down this path, nothing will change. Women as they are currently are just an expense to a man, and not a benefit.

MGTOW is a protective response. And what’s sad is that women are the actual victims. Men can easily live a life of solitude and purpose completely on their own. I have been like this for 2-3 yrs now, and others for much much longer. Women on the other hand end up hitting that moment where their wombs scream and tell them to get pregnant. Unfortunately, women realise this way too late after they have ridden the cock caroussel and had their fun and education during their peak years. No normal man is going to marry these kind of women.

Don’t get me wrong it is lonely sometimes when you think about the family you crave, but the circumstances are just not right. My attitude, and I believe it is the right one, is for a man to build a purpose in his life and have ambitions for the future. A man can easily achieve this, and if a woman comes along who sees value in what he is building then she is more than welcome to join. It’s actually funny that this society has brainwashed men into thinking that women need to be approached and courted as if they were the crown jewels. I am starting to think that that is feminist, Disney bs. The man is actually the prize. It is women who need to identify where they want to be and choose the man that fits into their dream, and make sure that the man is building that dream. In the end time is working against women, and not men. A possibility I see is for men to look for women in countries where they are still traditional, like Ukraine, and STAY there and NOT bring them back.

Lastly, just to note that MGTOW is a philosophy and not some cult or fornication club. If you remember that article I sent to you ‘Where are all the good women?’ that you put on your Twitter, these men came to the same conclusion as MGTOWs have without knowing what MGTOW was. I think it is really gaining popularity as the gender relations are deteriorating more and more, and the evil of what women were allowed to do without consequences comes out. It was destined to happen, and I feel that moment has been reached. JG in your comments said it nicely. Society is completely immoral and wrong, and it will crash badly when God’s wrath comes. Like I told you, I think the only thing that will get rid of feminism, male feminists, and all this bs is a major war that will wipe out most of them.

Samantha said (October 17, 2018):

Umm, marriage and children may not be much of a bargain for women either. Men want women to work just like they do yet come home and have sex, care for children, cook and clean etc. Where is the fun and partnership in that? According to “Ghost in the machine” he got tired of “constant pressure to support my wife and pay the bills”. Do these men not realize that marriage is a partnership and both sides have to pitch in? Why should wives do double duty? Why does he feel marriage for him should mean NO responsibilities for him and all responsibilities transferred to his wife who he promised to love. Where is the empathy?

I have watched my daughters all get married and become exhausted. Their husbands are all nice guys but expect outside and inside work plus intimacy at the drop of a hat. So my sons-in-law lives got better and my daughters became haggard and discouraged. Perhaps women should also go their own ways.


Thanks Samantha

Where does it say that life is easy?


Al Thompson said (October 16, 2018):

I was at another man's business this morning and I made the comment that there is a big problem with the conduct of women. I said something to the effect that all a woman would have to do is to open a beer and make dinner for her husband. He came back and said that he has to buy is own food, cook his own meals, and they haven't had sex in years. Then after all that, a man can be thrown out of the house like a used Kotex. In my view, and a lot of other men I've spoken with is that women are too self-centered and they don't give a shit about a man's feelings. Most men just want someone to love and in return the man will take care of his wife and children. Apparently, that's too much of a burden for women who would rather go out and get a tattoo so she can look like shit. Most women I've met are basically conceited assholes with very little discernment.

My idea for fixing the problem is for couples to stop fornicating and wait until marriage(between a man and a woman). The reason is that fornication brings out the evil in both people. The evil seems to settle in and continues to create chaos. MGTOW fails in that it promotes fornication (pump and dump) and that will destroy the relationship between them.

The video you posted made a lot of sense. The women I used to date when I was a young man were very nice young women. Now, many of them are just self-centered gutter sluts. Even if they are not sluts, just knowing about all of the things that can go wrong would give me a pause before dating anyone. Everyone should be thinking of improving their moral behavior if they expect to have a good life. Never let the evil in or there is going to be a lot of trouble.

Being divorced is devastating; especially for the man. And marriage in the current moral depravity of society, is like playing Russian Roulette.

Having said all this about women, I will say that a lot of young men are completely immature and can't support themselves yet alone support a family. The best part of life is having a great family, but the current immorality of society is destroying everything that is good.

TT said (October 16, 2018):

Just want to say you are doing a great job!

Strength to you!

in the MGTOW ...

i agree with the comment from John ... most women need the state to be independent of men = jobs, handouts,

they are overpaid and overhyped and their office work being work of equal value is a joke!

look at those shallow, entitled [but rich] losers in politics ... merkel, clinton, warren, may, wynne, pelosi, feinstein,

just sowing the seeds of discontent, building nothing!

There are some great female entrepreneurs who should not be bundled with the majority of this useless, dry kindling!

JG said (October 16, 2018):

It's sad but this new generation has been beaten down so bad by the secular humanist subculture that it's taking its toll on many of them.

Pornography, same-sex marriage and almost every form of ungodliness have been shoved down their throats for years and with no regard for God and his plan for mankind. This obviously was their objective from the start.

All this immorality is a runaway train now that is going to crash soon and the results will be devastating.
God will be pouring out his wrath on the world just like he did with Sodom and Gomorrah.

Marriage was once called Holy Matrimony between a man and a woman who God has joined together.
The atheist liberals say we've come a long way down the road of "progress" but in reality, we have deteriorated as a people and have distanced ourselves from God.
We all better start taking our Holy Bible seriously because if we don't there WILL be a time, and soon, that we wished we had.

Chad said (October 16, 2018):

Before there was MGTOW, it was WGTOW. As in, “women going their own way.” But yes, it’s a mutual affair. I’d suggest an important aspect that needs to be discussed is religion.

There’s that saying, “the family that prays together stays together!” If men and women begin going back to church, they will very likely rediscover each other. After all, church is known as another place to “hook up.” Instead though, people are obsessed with their online lives and walking their dogs. These activities virtually eliminate the rejoining of the sexes.

We need to promote offline lifestyles and social gatherings. Bring the sexes together versus technology-based separation. A rediscovery of what it means to mingle. That also includes those with families to spend time outdoors to show the world, “this is what a family looks like.”

There are many ways to go about this.

The 23 Types of Anti Whites (Thanks Mike)

October 12, 2018


Below- Satanists Control Government & Media -Proof (scroll down)

Marijuana Legalization : What is the Social Impact?

September 29, 2018


The Purpose of Life is to wake up. To catch a glimpse of the Divine. 
To get High in a moral sense. This is my hope. But contributor Mike
Stone is more pessimistic. I post his missive below and welcome
response from people who have anecdotal answers to the question
posed in the title. 

by Mike Stone

I think the cultural effect of legal cannabis is horrendous.

I do not use it, although I have tried it in high school and again once in my 20's. 

I have two older brothers who both started on grass, became hooked, and moved to other drugs. Both ended up in prison due to crimes they committed while high. One completely fried his brain. He's dead. 

When I was 19, I worked in a bar. Three of the bartenders smoked a lot of grass and ended up murdering some guy because of a drug deal. They cut off his head, which was never found. These were young guys in their 20's. One guy turned against the other two and got off. I'm sure the other two were both sentenced to life.

I've seen drugs ruin so many lives I can't count. A guy I went to high school with was the best running back in the state, one of the best in the country. He could have sailed through college on a football scholarship and turned pro. Instead, he got hooked on grass and never went anywhere.

At that time, nobody's parents knew what the heck was going and nobody seemed to care. People were so zombied out by television, they seemed powerless to do anything.

I'm in Vegas where pot is legal. If Disneyland is the happiest place on earth, then Las Vegas is the slimiest place on earth. The entire city is built on the concept of fleecing people out of their money. 

I went by the pool at the Golden Nugget yesterday afternoon. It was like a scene out of Sodom and Gomorrah, drunken, half-naked fools everywhere. Women with hardly anything on.

I admit, it produces a momentary thrill, but at the same time, it's completely disgusting. Modesty and charm are like ancient artifacts. The saddest part is all the children I see here and the foreign tourists. Adults, who don't know any better, bring their young children with them to Las Vegas and they're exposed to all the decadence.

I passed a Japanese girl on the street yesterday. She looked to be around 21 and she was pulling her luggage behind her. She had a look of immense sadness like she was ready to cry. She probably saved her money for over a year to come to Las Vegas and found out real fast what a waste her dream vacation turned out to be. I'm still thinking about her.

People don't know how to be human anymore. They're so drugged up from grass, alcohol, chemtrails, medications, and chemicals in their food and water that they can't think straight. Then they're bombarded from all sides by pornography, fake news, illegal immigration and Hollywood filth. American culture is dead if it ever even existed.

There are fewer and fewer places for people to turn. The Catholic Church, which built Western Civilization and which has accomplished more good for more people than any organization in the history of the world, has been completely taken over and subverted by Communist scum since Vatican II. The New Mass is not even valid. We are truly in the end times as prophesied in the Bible and as foretold at the Lady of Fatima apparitions. Sister Lucia - the real Sister Lucy, not the impostor Sister Lucy - was one of the seers at Fatima and she even admitted that we are in the end times. 

It seems as if the only way to survive in the world today is to detach from the world as much as possible. I think the solitude that your latest essayist, Evelyn, experiences on her farm is one of the reasons she is so clear-headed and loving.

Mike Stone is the author of It's Okay To Be White and A New America, the first novel of the Alt-Right, a dark comedy set on Election Day 2016 in Los Angeles -  - Available exclusively on Amazon.

First Comment from David

Henry, I came of age in the late 60's when recreational drugs like grass, acid, hash and speed became widely available (though all were illegal at the time) in America. In high school I experimented with grass, hash and acid, (I drew the line at cocaine, speed and heroin) but gradually came to realize that in the crowd I ran with, drugs were ALL we had in common. Friendship, loyalty, ambition, looking to the future, didn't even enter the equation. The hardcore users (most of them were dealers too) that were our role models in those years turned out to be the biggest losers in life and many of them died early deaths from the inevitable. One of them that I used to get high with was actually a childhood friend, academically smart, from an affluent family and a very talented tennis player, who gradually descended into the netherworld of hard drugs like cocaine and heroin. One night he was in so much pain from kidney stones brought on by his habitual drug use, he went to the local ER. The staff refused to treat him, thinking he was just another hippy who wanted some free painkillers; he went home and tried to self-medicate with a massive injection of Demerol and died in a corner of his attic. With his background, the world could have been his for the taking.

I finally wrenched myself loose of the whole subculture by my junior year in high school. I still think drugs like grass, hash and acid can unlock psychic potential in truly creative persons, but it's a razor's edge that can easily cut the other way and destroy one's ability to finish anything of importance. If you're a moody, introspective person like I was, they can make you depressed and suicidal. If you're a supremely confident person, they can make you more self-centered and manipulative. Drugs mess with the mind and lock people apart in a way booze never did, for me anyway.

What grieves me most is I thought we already learned the early hard lessons about recreational drugs 30-40 years ago, but today the same mistakes are being repeated on an even larger scale by newer generations. My oldest child has lost 2 classmates to opioid overdoses; a third classmate who'd been on ADD medication since his early teens lost his ability to cope by his mid-20's, and committed suicide by taking an entire bottle at once. And these drugs were all legal and prescribed by a doctor. It feels like a slow march since the Sixties from a giggly innocence with that first puff to something more hardcore and callous today.

Makow response-  Thanks, David. I don't think marijuana should be equated with opioids. If anything I think marijuana will replace a lot of prescription drugs, and be far more salutary. 

Anonymous writes:

I watched my older brothers get into weed back in the 60s and it seemed to zap incentive out of them. Though they have been active in life, one is in a sports hall of fame and the other worked as a musician in Hollywood and with very well known rock bands. Nevertheless I feel their usage has curtailed their potentials, they could have reached higher. 

My youngest brother is another story. At 19 he started using and his personality flipped upside down in only one week's time. He went from a youthful college student, popular in his church and doing well in academics to a couch potato i this one week. He flunked out of college and stopped going to church. He got his girlfriend pregnant and they married into what because of a sour relationship. When I'd come to visit he'd be so high that he couldn't speak. I feel that weed ruined his life. 

He had a job that he did well at as a welder and became a factory foreman. But he eventually turned to meth and was fired from his job because he'd show up to work when he felt like it. One night he was delivering meth to a customer and he was killed by a drunk driver at age 40. The autopsy showed him high on meth when he was killed. 

My eldest brother is now 73 years old and he still uses marijuana daily. He's a nice guy and his nieces and nephews love him. But he developed a strange illness of vomiting to dehydration and having to go to the ER. These developed into 2 day stays in the hospital every 2 months or so for over 5 years. 

The doctors didn't know what was causing his condition. They removed his gallbladder, they treated him for parasites and I don't know what else the tried to alleviate his condition. 

I was reading some medical articles and the symptoms described in one where exactly that of my brother. The disease is called Cannabinoid Hyperemesis syndrome. I told him about it and he started cutting back on weed and his condition has improved to the point that he hasn't been back to the ER in 2 years, though he had a few close calls. 
I personally never used any sort of drug. It never held any attraction for me. 

Kavanaugh Spectacle Sponsored by George Soros

September 27, 2018

Kavanaugh Spectacle Sponsored by George Soros 

"All planned 3 months ago, with a website, , a radical law firm hired and an organization formed," Demand Justice"; with a donation of $5 million from George Soros. This was so well planned, and the Dems knew about this disinformation from the start."  

The Organization, Demand Justice, did "train" women on Saturday and bus women in for protests this week in DC.

The Daily Caller reported back in June:

A new political advocacy group that vowed to put $5 million behind an effort to stop Judge Brett Kavanaugh's confirmation to the U.S. Supreme Court has significant ties to the liberal financier George Soros.

A Daily Caller News Foundation review has found that the group's primary financial supporter is a nonprofit to whom Soros has given millions.

The group, Demand Justice (DJ), is organized and financed by a 501(c)(4) called the Sixteen Thirty Fund, which collected some $2.2 million in contributions from the Open Society Policy Center (OSPC), one of Soros' primary donation vehicles, between 2012 and 2016.

BTW Demand Justice is run by former Hillary Clinton press secretary Brian Fallon.

My colleague J.E. Dyer pointed out that the lawyer for Kavanaugh's accuser helps run a George Soros organization:

Daniel Greenfield reported on Monday at FrontPage that the lawyer for Christine Blasey Ford, the accuser of Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh, is the vice chair of the board of directors for the Project on Government Oversight (POGO), a Soros-funded "watchdog" group.

The lawyer is Debra Katz, founding partner of the Washington, D.C. firm Katz, Marshall, & Banks.

Greenfield links to a letter POGO sent to the Senate in August "demanding Kavanaugh records." It seems like a hundred years ago, but that was the big scandal the Democrats and media were trying to create at the time (in reality, three weeks ago): a false impression that "Kavanaugh records" were being insufficiently disclosed.

Source     (Thanks Andrew!)